S3E24: Navigating Relationships Post Brain Injury with Nia Renee
In this episode of the Making Headway Podcast, hosts Alison and Eryn welcome back Nia Renee, who shares her journey through multiple brain surgeries and the impact of chronic illness on her relationships. Nia discusses her transition from being a brain injury survivor to a relationship coach, focusing on helping others navigate the complexities of relationships affected by trauma and chronic illness. The conversation highlights the importance of medical advocacy, personal growth, and the challenges faced by those living with chronic conditions. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of navigating medical trauma, the importance of self-advocacy, and the emotional toll of job loss. They discuss the significance of journaling as a tool for self-reflection and the necessity of setting boundaries to protect oneself from toxic relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the power of vulnerability and the importance of finding supportive relationships that uplift rather than drain energy.
Keywords
brain injury, recovery, relationship coaching, chronic illness, narcissistic abuse, medical advocacy, emotional healing, personal growth, medical trauma, self-advocacy, job loss, identity, journaling, boundaries, toxic relationships, support systems, chronic illness, empowerment
Takeaways
· Nia has undergone six brain surgeries due to Chiari 1 malformation and idiopathic intercranial hypertension
· Chronic illness can significantly impact personal relationships.
· Medical gaslighting is a common issue for patients with rare conditions.
· Nia's husband plays a crucial role in advocating for her health.
· Nia transitioned to relationship coaching to help others with similar experiences.
· The importance of having proper medical credentials as a coach.
· Nia's journey includes confronting her past relationships and trauma.
· Building a supportive community is vital for recovery.
· Nia emphasizes the need for self-advocacy in healthcare settings.
· Personal growth often comes from confronting difficult experiences. Advocating for oneself is crucial in the face of medical trauma.
· Job loss can significantly impact one's identity and sense of purpose.
· Journaling serves as a powerful tool for self-reflection and understanding triggers.
· Setting boundaries is essential for mental health and well-being.
· Recognizing toxic relationships is key to personal growth and healing.
· Support systems play a vital role in recovery and self-empowerment.
· It's important to prioritize self-care and personal needs.
· Documenting experiences can provide clarity and validation.
· Vulnerability can lead to stronger, more authentic relationships.
· Everyone deserves to feel supported and valued in their relationships.
Sound Bites
"Relationships are a big part of our recovery."
"I started having the strangest symptoms."
"I decided to bet on myself"
"You have to document everything"
"I gaslit myself for so long"
"I would rather spend my life alone"
"It's worth cutting out the shit"
"I married someone that has protected me"
"You deserve to feel that"
"You have to prioritize yourself"
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Brain Injury Recovery
01:11 Nia's Journey with Brain Injuries
08:01 Navigating Medical Challenges
16:50 The Impact of Relationships on Recovery
23:02 Transitioning to Relationship Coaching
26:04 Personal Growth and Empowerment
27:38 Navigating Medical Trauma and Self-Advocacy
32:20 The Impact of Job Loss on Identity and Purpose
37:43 The Power of Journaling and Self-Reflection
42:57 Setting Boundaries and Recognizing Toxic Relationships
49:52 Finding Strength in Vulnerability and Support Systems
Reach out to
Nia Renee: www.howtoloveabatteredwoman.com
Nia on IG @howtoloveabatteredwoman
Eryn on IG @eryn_makingheadwaypodcast
Alison on IG @alison_maknigheadwayodcast
MHP on IG @makingheadwaypodcast
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